Buenos días, mis amigos! (Probably spelled or said that wrong.) Forgive me for the short post this week. I am, shall we say, tied up.



This is our first ever hot vacation. And I’ll be darned, it took us far too long. There’s a reason so many folks flock to sunnier shores at this time of year.
Also, for the first time ever, I’m actually using the MacBook Pro’s nano texture display in the manner for which it was intended.

Also, also, I have discovered mojitos.
The Misfit Tree
My dad once told me as a kid that little things that make a person imperfect — a mole, a scar, a funny laugh — are what make them beautiful. That as I got older (he told this to me when I was a young child as a way to build my confidence over the small mole I have above my lip), I would recognize these little imperfections were truly beauty markers.
He was right, of course.
Everyone has a misfit tree in some way. Those characteristics are what make them unique and beautiful.
I Deleted My Second Brain
Joan Westberg’s commentary regarding her second brain — both the creation of her PKM system and how it altered her actual work and thinking — really hits home for me. Westberg’s main points:
But Borges understood the cost of total systems. In “The Library of Babel,” he imagined an infinite library containing every possible book. Among its volumes are both perfect truth and perfect gibberish. The inhabitants of the library, cursed to wander it forever, descend into despair, madness, and nihilism. The map swallows the territory.
PKM systems promise coherence, but they deliver abstracted confusion. The more I wrote into my vault, the less I felt. A quote would spark an insight, I’d clip it, tag it, link it - and move on. But the insight was never lived - it was just stored. Like food vacuum-sealed and never eaten, while any nutritional value slips away.
Worse, the architecture began to shape my attention. I started reading to extract. Listening to summarize. Thinking in formats I could file. Every experience became fodder.
I stopped wondering and started processing.
I wrote for some publications back in the day, and my colleagues were huge into personal knowledge management. They still are! And though I believe these types of systems have the potential to unlock a connection here or there, I simply don’t believe these systems consistently produce enough value to justify their creation. Definitely not for me. If you swear by your PKM system, that’s wonderful — I’d challenge you to show me how it provides daily value to you and your work. That’s not a shot or a “Prove me wrong” question. It’s literally me asking for the sake of perhaps unlocking something new for myself.
But I’ve tried. I’ve tried again and again. AnyType, Obsidian, Roam Research, Apple Notes — I’ve tried them all in the hopes of somehow unlocking some newfound second brain power that shows its value over and over.
I have likely settled on a form of PKM — I save anything educational for work in Notion, which can be referenced via Notion AI by me or the entire office. For everything else, I save things to MyMind, which I use for writing inspiration or general personal research (say, for a renovation in the house). I suppose I also save highlights to Readwise and review those each morning, though this is more for spaced repetition than it is for making mind-bending connections between privately written notes.
I’ll probably strike a nerve by saying PKM systems are more likely than not more cumbersome than most people will find truly useful. Doing something for the sake of doing something — making yourself feel productive — is the least productive action possible.
“What history generally “teaches” is how hard it is for anyone to control it, including the people who think they’re making it.”
— Adam Gopnik
The Second Cup
The Best Cover of AC/DC’s Thunderstruck
I learned some words to this song thanks to this cover.
The Most Romantic Hotels in the World
It’s Valentine’s season, so why not ring it in with a booking at one of these outstanding hotels. I have this one saved in MyMind for some future parent-only travel.
Tuna for Mac
Interesting take on an improved Spotlight search.
A Great Mojito Recipe
Because this is what I’m going to make when I get home. In the summer, of course.
Happy Sunday. I hope you have a wonderful week ahead.
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